Signs of a Healthy Relationship –
Being in a relationship is actually nice, the date nights, the feelings that come with it,
However, being in a relationship isn’t the issue, are you in a healthy one? most people don’t know if they are or not but this article is going to help figure it out.
You respect each other
This doesn’t mean greeting them or having the kind of respect for elderly ones, respecting each other is when each other’s differences are accepted regardless, respecting each other by being loyal, respecting each other’s opinion and not just one, consulting each other before making decisions especially one that affects the other, if this is been implemented in your relationship then you are in a healthy one.
You support each other’s individual growth
If your partner is the type of person that restricts you from doing things that will make you grow, then you are not in a healthy relationship.
supporting each other’s individual growth is when you feel confident with each other and not threatened or insecure as this might lead to one not wanting their partner to grow, support each other’s accomplishments, feel happy, and help with each other career and business.
You’re Not Afraid to Speak Up
When you feel secure enough to tell your partner what they did you don’t like as it takes a lot of courage and confidence to speak up then you are in a relationship.
Time spent together makes you feel uplifted and it happens regularly
Anytime you meet each other irrespective of the distance, you feel happy, uplifted, and motivated instead of devasted, heartbroken, or sad then you should know you partner is affecting you positively and most importantly healthy.
You bring out the best in each other
Bringing out the best in each other is one of the most beautiful things in a relationship, if your partner brings out the best in you, then you are in luck, they are willing to teach you new things, share new knowledge and experiences, even most of their good traits and knowledge rubs off on you.
You Know Each Other’s Schedule
When you understand each other’s schedule and when your partner has an important task it helps to reduce arguments that tend to result from being busy for them, unless they overdo and keep you in the dark about their schedule.
You trust one another
No doubt healthy relationships are built on trust, when you trust your partner there will be no room for doubts, trusting your partner makes the relationship transparent and not complicated, trust can be built by being loyal, not snooping on their phones.
You are comfortable spending time apart
Most people think they have to be together always to make the relationship work and be healthy but actually being able to spend time apart and do your own thing is you being in a healthy relationship.
You Know Each Other’s Love Language
Knowing and understanding each other’s love language by learning and expressing it to each other in a way that works for each of you.
you don’t have to be love frustrated always as your partner doesn’t understand how to treat you.
You are grateful for small, everyday genuine gestures
According to psychologists, little gestures tend to do more in a relationship than big ones.
Consistent gestures tend to build up over time, like giving them massages, showing kindness, making coffee, and letting them rest when they are tired while you do their role for them.
A healthy relationship takes time to establish and it is so good for your mental health and peace of mind, in a much as it takes time, it can be possible if you and your partner are ready to establish and Implement the following tips above.
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